My
mother spent two-and-a-half years in a nursing home. She had me to visit every day and bring her
new stacks of large print books, that she spent all day, every day,
reading. Without that stimulation, I'm
very afraid she would have sunk into the torpor and despair I saw overcoming
most other residents.
There
are so many problems with nursing homes, but the overwhelming one I saw was
that well over half of the residents--I'd guess seventy to eighty percent of
them--had dementia. Those still mobile
were in locked wards, but once they were in a wheelchair, they were down in the
regular wings.
This
presence of huge numbers of patients with dementia exerts incredible influence
on the care of everyone. Underpaid,
poorly trained aides tend to treat all residents as if they were not mentally
acute. There is little effort made to
provide books. The administration left
the air conditioning on well into the fall so they could be comfortable in
their suits. Meanwhile, the residents
were freezing at night. I had my mother
dressed as if she were camping in Maine.
But so many of the residents have not the capacity to understand or
complain.
I
don't know the answer. I just know I am
doing everything I can to ensure no one of my family ever has to suffer through that
experience again.
Hi Mary, thanks for the very nice post about nursing home care. I want to include my experience with Home nursing. My Uncle is n bed from last year and we all do job so it's obvious we wanted a nurse to take care of him and she is really good. She is like a family member now and she's doing perfectly great job. I think when you searching for a nurse we should try for the best nursing company because a good nursing company always gives you a good understanding nursing stadd because they have to set up the standard.
ReplyDeleteHi Nomzam,
ReplyDeleteThanks for the perceptive comment. I agree with care at home is best, if it can be arranged. Best to you, Mary